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Saturday, December 22, 2012

The Best Christmas Gift Ever


I like winter with snapping cold and clean white snow, tobogganing, skiing, snowshoeing and playing outside I even like shoveling. I especially love the Christmas season; visiting, Christmas eating, sing songs and dad playing the piano. When I was a kid, we always traveled to New Brunswick to visit with relatives which was great too.

The year of the best gift ever was 1981 and I was in grade eight. This was the year that the Atari 2600 wood grain video game console came out. Before the Atari 2600, the best video game was pong.....As exciting as a bouncing ball being hit it back and forth with two paddles on the television screen is, it didn't hold a candle to the new Atari. The Atari had fantastic games like Missile Command, Demon Attack, the Adventure Pack and of course Space Invaders.

I wanted an Atari for Christmas sooooo bad! In my house, we didn't do a lot of talking about what we wanted for Christmas. I don't really know why, but we didn't. I spent a lot of time with the Sears catalogue showing mom the games, telling her how cool they were, that everyone was going to get them and how great a gift it would be for me and the entire family. I really thought she was buying into it.

We were spending Christmas in Dartmouth that year so we went to the Christmas eve service which was always nice and I still enjoy Christmas eve service. I enjoy being in a crowded church that's decorated for Christmas with piles of kids. There's always a baby crying and kids playing and at least one child makes a break for it and runs up the aisle towards the tree in the front of the church with a parent close behind trying not to look embarrassed.

It was one of those rare Christmases in metro when it starts to flurry on Christmas eve so we have the hopes of a white Christmas. I woke up on Christmas morning and there was enough snow to cover the grass so we had a white Christmas. We always received one big gift from Santa and then smaller gifts and a host of practical gifts and clothes. One year I received sixteen pairs of socks on Christmas morning. I have no idea why everyone thought I needed socks, but it was pretty funny unwrapping all of them.

This Christmas morning, my thirteen year old self ran down stairs and saw the box. It was about the size of what I figured an Atari should be and it was addressed to me from Santa. I danced around in my red pyjamas that made me look like the extra landing party member from the Star Trek Enterprise, and I waited until we all got out of bed and came down stairs. My brother and mom and dad were pretty quick, but Barb, my sister, was older and in university and was slow to get out of bed.

I was beside myself and finally got to open up my gift. I was giggly and then, when the wrapping came off it revealed a brand new Funk and Wagnalls Standard College Dictionary. I was disappointed to say the least. I tried not to let it show and realized that there was no Atari for me that year. Christmas continued and was just as enjoyable as ever. We had turkey, and friends and family visits and we also made the trek to New Brunswick.

Throughout the year, I was reminded often of my lack of an Atari, because whenever I went to friends' houses I was never very good at the video games because I couldn't practice at home.

That dictionary stayed on my desk and helped me through grade twelve, through university and through grad school. It even helped me cheat in scrabble. I'd make up words, someone would check to make sure it was an actual word and sure enough it was in the Funk and Wagnalls dictionary. The dictionary also taught me a couple of other things. That you don't always get what you want, but you usually get what you need. More importantly, it taught me that Christmas isn't about receiving gifts, it's about Christ and the time we hopefully get to spend with our family and loved ones.

I thought that my disappointment showed that morning and often felt bad that my parents knew that I didn't appreciate the gift, but a couple of months ago, I heard mom tell my wife that I was such a good kid that I didn't complain a bit one year when all I received was a dictionary. I don't think that she knows that the Funk and Wagnalls dictionary was the best gift ever. 

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